A workshop to educate children about sexual harassment

A workshop to educate children about sexual harassment (under the slogan "This is my body is mine and no one has the right to touch me or harm me")

Definitions:

Child: Any individual under the age of (18) and includes adolescents.

Harassment: Someone who touches you in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable.

Sexual harassment:

Any excitement that a child is intentionally exposed to by touching his genitals, or urging him to touch the organs of another person, or to teach him bad habits, or exposing him to explicit viewing or abnormal pictures.

Some information about sexual harassment:

It is a rare thing

It only occurs in western countries

It only occurs in slums

Those affected are only girls

An assailant is an easily identifiable person because it does not match their community.

How do we teach the child the difference between safe and unsafe touch?

We tell them that our bodies speak to us as our mouths speak to others, so you tell them, for example, when we are hungry or thirsty ... etc. That is why we must listen to it when you tell us the type of touches: is it safe with a happy feeling or is it insecure with a sense of anxiety or fear in its time or after a period of time and that it is better to have the courage, little boy and speak immediately if it is exposed to an insecure touch.

The steps to follow when someone touches you in these three areas:

Screaming loudly (noooooooooooooo)

Escape from the person quickly

Inform an adult, for example, if you are at school or parents if you are at home

How to talk to children about the privacy of different parts of his body?

The beginning is to talk about the body in general, for example: I tell him/her that his/her body belongs to him/her and that it is important to take care of through healthy eating and hygiene, wearing light clothes in summer and warm clothes in winter and go to the doctor when we get ill.

There is also another method, for example, we conduct a dialogue about the organs of the body that we know that every member of his body has a different function and that function is only created by Allah Almighty for us, and that there are visible parts in his body and there are invisible organs and this is not right for anyone to see or touch other people even if it is The next of kin, or whatever the child loves him, except his mother when he changed his preservation when he was young or when taking a shower or a doctor when going to meet him for a disease, and he does not see or touch it when someone. It is covered by underwear. (Chest, butt, between legs)

And opinions were gathered on the necessity of calling it by its real names because the correct name:

It helps the child to accept his body, but symbolic names cause the child to believe that there is something shameful or shameful in his body and he cannot tell anyone if he touches an abnormal touch in it.

Or when there is a medical problem in these organs, it is easier for the child to tell you or tell the doctor.

If the child is molested, his words will be accurate.

If we do not inform them of their real names, they may hear wrong names outside the home or from peers.

There are topics that we can talk about at home and not talk about outside of it, such as talking about private organs or financially related to the family.... etc.
To prevent sexual harassment:
My name is Salam, and I live in peace. To be like me, listen to these words from me, to be like me in peace. We are children today and tomorrow's generation.
Do not take off your clothes in front of anyone.
Do not leave the bathroom door open.
Do not bathe with anyone.
Do not lie in a single bed with one.
Do not sit in one's legs or stand between his feet.
Do not allow anyone to kiss you in the mouth.

Do not hang in with for a long time.

Do not stay alone at home.

Do not ride the elevator alone.

Don't get in the car with someone you don't know.

Beware of public baths, indoor, dark and deserted places.

Caution while swimming.

Do not go with strangers.

Do not wear any jewelry that bears your name (in order not to facilitate your entry).

I hear the words of adults, but within the limits of their specialization, for example, the teacher in school in study and the driver in riding and disembarkation only.

Do not go with anyone who claims to be your father or that your father has sent him, except after confirmation.

I always hear my mother's words, no matter how strict, because they always take care of me

I live in peace and do not allow anyone to harm me.